The Lower Eastern Times Opening The Third Eye
A Thika woman, Lucy Washana, has sparked discussion on social media after sharing a candid post urging people to distinguish between experiencing a “dry spell” and genuinely wanting to enter a romantic relationship.
In a Facebook post, Washana argued that some people may mistake a temporary lack of sexual intimacy for a desire to find love or begin a relationship.
“A lot of people nowadays confuse dry spell with I need love I want to date you,” Washana wrote.
She went on to suggest that people who are simply seeking sexual intimacy should be honest about their intentions instead of entering relationships under the impression that they are looking for love.
Her post has highlighted the sometimes complicated relationship between dating, emotional connection and physical intimacy, particularly in an era where social media has become a major platform for conversations about relationships.
Washana’s remarks have the potential to generate differing reactions, with some readers viewing them as a call for honesty and clear communication between adults, while others may question whether physical intimacy can be separated from emotional expectations in dating.
The post comes amid ongoing online conversations about modern dating, casual relationships and the challenges people face in identifying what they actually want from romantic.
