The Lower Eastern Times Opening The Third Eye
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By: Nick Nayma Maina
We’re en route to the picturesque Nakuru, and the tranquility of the day is palpable.
I’m eagerly anticipating the sight of baboons in Naivasha. At the helm is Mr. ‘Degwa’, also known as Bull, steering a Toyota Hiace, affectionately termed ‘box’, through the fog-laden road.
Each of us is absorbed in our own thoughts as we journey towards the breathtaking landscapes of the Great Rift Valley. Next to me sits a strikingly large woman, indulging in KFC, inadvertently encroaching on my space. Is that not how land grabbing starts?
Believing in the importance of being considerate to those around us, I patiently wait for her to finish her meal, hoping she’ll adjust her seating to respect my personal space, which I’ve rightfully paid for. Yet, she appears indifferent to the discomfort she’s causing. I’ve secured this seat for my modest frame to relish the trip, only to find myself sharing it with someone who’s claimed not just her own spot but also a significant portion of mine. She seems utterly at ease, while I’m anything but.
I gently request that she shift slightly, to reposition my ‘divided’ seating department, only to be met with a dismissive attitude. Meanwhile, Mr. ‘Degwa’ navigates over speed bumps and potholes, adding to my discomfort. I resolve to bear the inconvenience until an opportunity arises to switch seats. This experience leaves me pondering whether the seats are too small or if it’s just that some passengers exceed their confines. While I mean no offense, there’s a principle that one’s rights end where another’s begin. It’s unjust for a traveler to suffer due to another’s disregard for shared boundaries. Worse still, when one courteously requests their due space, they’re perceived as rude and insensitive.
I advocate for mutual respect and consideration; if one’s presence causes another distress, it’s only right to acknowledge and address it. Maintaining one’s health should not result in being penalized by those who make different lifestyle choices. It’s not to say that all plus size individuals are neglectful; many have health conditions or other factors at play. Nonetheless, common courtesy is essential.
Now, my enjoyment of the serene journey to the ‘flamingo city’ is marred by the encroachment of my seatmate. It’s an inequity that could be resolved simply: if one seat isn’t sufficient, then securing two might be the solution.
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